“Can you hold containment, stay connected, and just listen?”
Why Men Keep Failing To Understand Women
Men are hardwired for SOLUTION. This beautiful gift of finding fixes isn’t always the right course of action when supporting another, particularly women. Deepening our understanding and leaning into curiosity is the name of the game here, realizing that our solution-mindedness is helpful situationally and needs consent. Listen in as I share how to pump the breaks on trying to solve the “problem” and hold patient containment.
REFLECTION QUESTIONS: Where in your life could you benefit from using more curiosity rather than being in solution mode? What would happen if you listened longer before acting?
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