“Choose her everyday, or leave her!”

Leaving logic mode doesn’t come easily to most men, but the endeavor is fully worth it. The importance of creating safety for women is often talked about, but there’s a deeper layer to this conversation that our guest Bryan Reeves brilliantly weaves in. A former US Air Force Captain, author, husband, and coach, Bryan is fiercely committed to helping men nourish their intimate relationships. In this episode we cover how to exude presence, why we make lovers into enemies, and how BEING WITH YOUR FEELINGS will profoundly shift your relationship!


  • [06:02] Why an integrated man can call upon his inner masculinity OR femininity.
  • [10:40] How does FEELING OUR FEELINGS impact our relationships?
  • [14:09] Do men have an aversion to BEING? What happens when we slow down and stop doing?
  • [20:27] Are men to blame for the current masculinity crisis?
  • [26:10] How to establish safety in a relationship?
  • [30:41] Why living WE-focused is instrumental for maintaining the health and closeness in relationships.
  • [34:22] How awakening to his deepest pain and ungrieved losses led Bryan into true healing.
  • [39:48] What subtle way do men torture the women in their life?
  • [44:52] What is Bryan’s message to men dealing with codependency? 
  • [49:11] Why verbally COMMITTING DAILY to your relationship is vital to its sustainability and health.


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Book || BUY to read or listen! – “Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her): A Guide For Your Journey Through The Transformational Fires Of Love & Intimacy”

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