“REWRITE the social sexual narrative and LIBERATE your erotic nature”

In this revealing episode with close Rising Man ally Eric Vargas, we hone in on how women experience SEXUAL CRAVINGS and where SOCIETAL SHAME prevents pleasure! It’s impossible to NOT pick up some exquisite tips on relating to the feminine from this conversation. Erica speaks from ample experience, as she’s helped hundreds of women reclaim the FULLNESS of their sexual being. Listen in and learn why honestly communicating desires is key, where men and women experience sexuality differently, and how to healthily navigate the casual dating scene! 


  • [04:29] How women CRAVE SEX differently than men.
  • [09:42] How does sexual shaming impact young women? 
  • [14:15] Why society ascribes value to women who withhold from sexual activity.
  • [21:51] What dynamics are at play in casual dating situations?
  • [27:45] Why women FEEL SAFE when a man is super honest and clear with his desires and intentions.
  • [33:26] Do most women prefer to have many partners or just one?
  • [38:32] Why women feel pressured to ignore their pleasure and focus on having kids.
  • [42:20] How the kink, poly, and sex positive communities are teaching healthy boundary principles.
  • [50:30] What are the benefits of communicating your authentic intentions from the start of a relationship?
  • [57:33] Why settling for less than you desire will lead to long term issues.

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