“When I’m in those sticky, difficult times in my relationship I really just need to reflect on how can I be a better husband right now.”


Are you keeping score in your relationships? Expecting something back every time you do something nice? Common missteps like these naturally arise in relationships if you aren’t intentionally cultivating love! In this instrumental Fam Life installment, Phil Gomez shares his TOP 6 KEYS for creating harmony & compassion in your long term relationship! Some highlights include why men NEED to prioritize their mission, how showing up in the little ways matters big time, and why selfless acts keeps the spark alive. 


  • [03:10] How Justin Sterling’s “Men’s Weekend” workshop transformed Phil’s life and helped create these keys..
  • [06:28] The power of showing up for your partner without needing something in return.
  • [13:01] Why clear boundaries and honoring your mission is essential to manhood.
  • [18:01] How showing up in the little ways, being thoughtful, and handling details impacts the relationship.
  • [22:11] Why active listening and empathy are often more helpful than giving logical answers.
  • [27:37] The difference between leading vs. sharing with emotion.
  • [31:29] Why you should never stop dating your partner.
  • [36:11] A quick recap of all the top 6 keys to relational mastery.
  • [39:41] Why relationships are the most fundamental part of life.
  • [42:45] How to take these keys and put them into practice!

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